chatgpt and I concluded that, logically, both partners should keep their original last names when they marry.

When a child is born, their surname should be a combination of both parents last names.

Example:

Father: John Smith

Mother: Amy Brown

Children:

son - James Smitbrow

daughter - Christine Smitbrow

Reasons:

Equality: Both parents keep their identity and heritage, avoiding outdated traditions.

Family Representation: The child carries a last name from both sides, ensuring balance.

Simplicity: No need for name changes in marriage or divorce, making it straightforward.

I really like this idea and think it’s a much better system than the traditional one where the woman takes the man’s last name and the children inherit his surname as well. Combining both parents last names for the children makes more sense.

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